Hurrah!

Jun. 4th, 2008 01:21 pm
kproche: (Default)
[personal profile] kproche
The California State Supreme Court has voted not to stay their same-sex marriage decision until the November election.

That means marriage licenses can be issued beginning June 17!

http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/c/a/2008/06/04/BA8V1137HS.DTL&tsp=1

Unfortunately, I've also discovered that they don't quite know what to do about registered domestic partners who decide to marry each other.

ETAThanks to [livejournal.com profile] jkusters who pointed me to this FAQ:

http://www.equalityforall.com/courtcasefaqs#anchor13

Now, we had a big ol' ceremony with our families in 2005, so we're just planning a quickie civil ceremony (maybe right before a BASFA meeting) to license things as a marriage.

Date: 2008-06-04 08:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jeff-morris.livejournal.com
You'll probably have to pay for the upgrade. :)

Date: 2008-06-04 08:26 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jadeprince.livejournal.com
Oh thank goodness. I've been waiting to hear an update on this.

Date: 2008-06-04 08:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lilacwire.livejournal.com
I love seeing news like this. <3

Date: 2008-06-04 08:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] trinsf.livejournal.com
I was so excited to read it when I saw it this morning! It's going to be another Summer of Love!

Date: 2008-06-04 10:57 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] karisu-sama.livejournal.com
I sincerely hope it is. As many people as possible proving their "boring / bland / conventional normalness" by doing such a "boring / bland / conventional normal thing" as GETTING MARRIED.

Marriage - what a galling "in your face" to the frothing bigots who try to portray people who fall outside their narrow-minded definition of "normal" (read: Exactly Like THEM) as "fringe freaks" and "dangerous elements determined to destroy all that is "Truth, Justice and the American Way."

Whereas "ordinary average folk" can see: Gee, just other people being.... boringly normal! Wow, who'da thunk it? :p~~~~~~~~~~~

Hey. The bigots used to pull the same shit over interracial marriage. Did people like me tear down the very fabric of society!!!"? - Obviously NOT.

Date: 2008-06-04 09:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] theresamather.livejournal.com
Hooray!!! :) :)

Date: 2008-06-04 09:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cmdrsuzdal.livejournal.com
You'd figure there would be some precedent from heterosexual domestic partnerships that got married, no?

Date: 2008-06-04 10:25 pm (UTC)
ext_267866: (Default)
From: [identity profile] buddykat.livejournal.com
You would think so... but then, that means that the government would be doing something logical and intelligent!

Date: 2008-06-04 09:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ladycelia.livejournal.com
So, where you getting hitched?

Date: 2008-06-06 06:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] karisu-sama.livejournal.com
BASFA meeting, 23rd! :)

Date: 2008-06-04 09:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cherylmmorgan.livejournal.com
I have this awful feeling that all my friends will be getting married while I'm stuck in the UK, but my thoughts will be with you all anyway.

Date: 2008-06-04 10:39 pm (UTC)
lferion: Art of pink gillyflower on green background (Nagatani)
From: [personal profile] lferion
*Dances*

I'm sure that someone will figure the domestic partner -> Marriage thing out pdq :-)

*I* know you are married already, but I am soooooo happy that you will get to be married-according-to-the-state-of-California too *\o/*

Date: 2008-06-04 10:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] karisu-sama.livejournal.com
HUZZAH!!!! :D :D :D

Hey, you're already married, but the "piece o' paper" should be eminently useful. :D

Date: 2008-06-05 01:53 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] djmermaid.livejournal.com
congratulations, you two! I can hardly wait to see what you decide to wear. ;-)

Date: 2008-06-05 04:37 am (UTC)
jkusters: John's Face (Default)
From: [personal profile] jkusters
Apparently, Marriage and RDP are considered separate categories, so you can be both. This is according to the ACLU guys who issued a FAQ a few days after the ruling.

http://www.equalityforall.com/courtcasefaqs#anchor13

JOhn.

Date: 2008-06-05 04:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kproche.livejournal.com
Thanks! I'll edit the entry to point to the FAQ

Date: 2008-06-05 11:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kaysho.livejournal.com
This still leaves unanswered the important question of etiquette of who proposes to whom. :)

Date: 2008-06-06 01:48 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kproche.livejournal.com
Oh that was settled once and for all in 2004.

I'd been asking at least once a year since 99. He always answered "maybe" or "sometime".

At Westercon in Phoenix, at the end of a wine-tasting party with friends I asked him (again) on bended knee and he said (no surprise) "Sometime..."

So I dropped to both knees and said, "No more 'sometime' -- Yes or No?!"

He said, "Yes!" The room went mad, and we had our big shindig in 2005.

So when the news came out I asked him if he wanted to have a civil service quickly and he said he thought that was a good idea, too.

(Yay)

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