You can set your Facebook to 'hidden' so that nobody can find you- you have to "friend" the people you want to see you. Otherwise, no one knows you're "lurking"!
I find Facebook a valuable tool when it comes to pictures as when someone 'tags' you in a picture, it automatically shows up in your photo album so you don't have to go hunting for it.
I block all applications (except keeping an on-line pet) so I'm not stuck playing games all day. :p
FWIW, Facebook was how I found out my grandfather was so sick; a friend of the family posted about it. All the annoyances I ever had with Facebook paled in comparison for me to be able to get in touch with my family and be there when my grandfather passed.
Edit: Also: Facebook is rather private: Nobody can see any information about you that you do not want them to see. For example, visitors to my profile will only see one picture and a list of who I have Friended (and if I wanted to, I could even change that). You don't need to worry about mass "friending".
It wants a freakin' first and last name!!! I don't USE those online - anywhere!!!
(Call me paranoid, but I made the decision to use images and NOT real names online ages ago. And yes, I HAVE been threatened by weapons-happy Neo-Nazis online - on Cosplay.com, in fact.)
I couldn't believe it - I went way late and still got auntie.m - auntiem was even still available, but I thought auntie.m would be more readable. Since I mostly use FB in Fandom, I have no problem with a fannish user name. I'm still findable under Lisa Harrigan (in fact, some of my husband's family has found me under Harrigan), so I'm comfortable with that. And Karisu - My profile is open to Friends of Friends, which is why the relatives could tell is was me, we had relatives as friends in common. Some of my friends I wouldn't have been able to find if they hadn't friended me, as they keep their information fairly hidden. So your visibility can vary quite a lot.
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Date: 2009-06-13 04:34 am (UTC)I decided to go for the latter. Why buck the trend? ;)
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Date: 2009-06-13 04:36 am (UTC)Except for a couple of boinkcoboy
and urban.jungleboy :-)
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Date: 2009-06-13 04:43 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-06-13 06:01 am (UTC)So now there is an easy URL to get to my Facebook page
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Date: 2009-06-13 07:21 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-06-13 06:34 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-06-13 06:42 am (UTC)I find Facebook a valuable tool when it comes to pictures as when someone 'tags' you in a picture, it automatically shows up in your photo album so you don't have to go hunting for it.
I block all applications (except keeping an on-line pet) so I'm not stuck playing games all day. :p
FWIW, Facebook was how I found out my grandfather was so sick; a friend of the family posted about it. All the annoyances I ever had with Facebook paled in comparison for me to be able to get in touch with my family and be there when my grandfather passed.
Edit: Also: Facebook is rather private: Nobody can see any information about you that you do not want them to see. For example, visitors to my profile will only see one picture and a list of who I have Friended (and if I wanted to, I could even change that). You don't need to worry about mass "friending".
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Date: 2009-06-13 09:07 am (UTC)(Call me paranoid, but I made the decision to use images and NOT real names online ages ago. And yes, I HAVE been threatened by weapons-happy Neo-Nazis online - on Cosplay.com, in fact.)
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Date: 2009-06-15 08:39 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-06-13 07:13 am (UTC)Since I mostly use FB in Fandom, I have no problem with a fannish user name. I'm still findable under Lisa Harrigan (in fact, some of my husband's family has found me under Harrigan), so I'm comfortable with that.
And Karisu - My profile is open to Friends of Friends, which is why the relatives could tell is was me, we had relatives as friends in common.
Some of my friends I wouldn't have been able to find if they hadn't friended me, as they keep their information fairly hidden. So your visibility can vary quite a lot.